Now just ask yourself what are the odds of her thinking her way out that crazy nonsense. There will be struggles in marriage and childrearing whether or not he is a member. At the very least, I might have tried to persuade my husband to pursue a different career, if only a less-demanding area of medicine. It was not just frustrating but also saddening and stressful.
We started to communicate our needs more clearly, rather than tiptoeing, and we started to compromise. Honestly I'd let things keep going. They could fill a book, the stories I could tell. December 17, I figured it might be fun to update you kind folks on what happened.
You are brave and good people and seem to be raising wonderful children who will be lights for everyone with whom they come in contact. All I can do is Trust in God. You should ask Him what you should do, as no one else can see the end from the beginning and no one else has perfect love for you and for your potential husband. I had to drive 2 hours alone - and spend the next day alone - bc his partner was out of town - and he could t leave 12 patients on the floor. I married a non-member over 20 years ago. In addition to that, when we do see each other, he is so exhausted that he usually passes out. My husband and I have a much closer relationship than ever before and I just hope that another blue eyed nurse doesn't come along to distract him. My wife told me she does not want to know if the church is false, so I don't pressure her. Do some research of your own as well, so that you know a little more about the person you are dating. This blog has been so helpful.
How am I certain. I'll bring up some CES letter issues, let her know why I wouldn't want my children raised like this, and we'll see what happens. But I loved this girl more than anything in life. And the longer you see her you won't be getting out of anything soon either. I do not see this going well. I have been reading this blog for a while now but this is the first time I have felt I needed to add my two cents in. Plx express what yu think as you ladies are more experienced in this stuff. Me and my husband has been married for almost 2 years now, and have been together for almost 12years.