This is wonderful and in accordance with the desires of a loving Father in Heaven, but it can turn a marriage on its ear, if the spouse is unprepared. I had tears in my eyes and goosebumps while reading it. Will you be open to me teaching my children my athiest point of view. I would not have wanted to be dismissed as crazy and unworthy of attention when I was still a member, because it wouldn't have been true. He is in a way to become a Ex mormon.
I pointed out the fact that the woman only goes after doctors I knew he hated women like that he was slow to catch on since she was charming and slick as snot. I'm married an interventional cardiologist; and I wish I only knew 5 years ago before she started her fellowship what the heck I was signing up for. A lot of what you say about Support was what I expected to find in residency. There is much that needs to change and many hearts to educate but if we doubt some of the fundamentals then why not all of them. She's a shell of her former self and it breaks by heart to this day. Its the days when I don't get a text that I worry I feel terrible now for ever doubting him.
If you can live with some auxiliary authority in your life knowing that your wife will, as necessary, bend to its will instead of yours, you'll cross those bridges as you come to them. You do not want hear in jeans if you are planning to eat at a fancy restaurant. Posts from people who have your same problem occur on a regular basis here on RFM. If I were you, I would just nope out of it and move on. I'll keep digging through it, but there's a lot there and I'd like some suggestions to narrow my search. Want to add to the discussion. Take a breath, stop and think, is it worth destroying so many lives so you can step in and take the rewards after someone else does the hard work. I'm sitting here after a hour night shift, still having to wash and fold his shirts for his return, clean the house, keep the pantry stocked up as well as support my business, feeling quite resentful of the fact that he's being wined and dined by the upper class at fancy restaurants.
I was spiritually prepared to receive the answer that I sought. They are always dressed in decent clothing, and the same is expected of their date. He will have to be okay with being thought not good enough to help in circumstances in which you believe that priesthood power is needed. I feel like the person who is giving our relationship strength, and the one who will keep our family going in the right direction in the future, as well. Unfortunately I've been sort of seeing a girl who is basically a real deal Mormon. Yes; I suppose if each of us believe the other is brainwashed, there's going to be major problems later on. Though my mother never openly complained about this, I could see it in her eyes. At that point, I would have gotten half of everything we own.