And they manage to get the time for it. She is in pretty deep and culture is a powerful force. His single doctor friends have so much more time and money to spend on lavish overseas holidays and recreational activities, while every spare moment the husband has to spend at home, helping with the children and all the responsibilities that entails. I wouldn't end a relationship with her, just as I wouldn't deny someone a job, or refuse to socialize with someone who is a Mormon. The day could come where she has to decide between her relationship with you and her church. I'm on mobile and it isn't letting me post the URL. I hope this will change in the future - it would be difficult living a lifestyle like this in the long run. She will never retire.
I never pressure him to spend time with me. I really wish that I can figure out how to balance the demands of his family and our life together and make everyone happy - I think it is going to be a long road ahead, especially considering that his practice is local to our families. Divorce would have wiped him out and he would not have been able to ever stop working. I know people should not get married if they can't accept each other as they are. You just have to decide if the payoff is worth it. And though most people think I'm the difficult one in the relationship they don't realize he is of stronger opinions he just let's me take the heat from outsiders.
She has to come to the realization that the church may not be infallible, it can't be forced on her or proven to her. MinsPackage speaks the truth. For every lesson and sermon preached about loving everyone, there are one or two lessons on avoiding outsiders because they will destroy your eternity. I'd rather marry a rich doctor and let him have his affair s on the side just so long as I don't have to work anymore. Unconditional love, excellent communication, and unwavering support. Their pain is guarded within the confines of their professional experience. Yes, because that is generally what is best. A shitty sex life, potentially. Not the end of the world. But my choice seems to be build a life so I am not lonely all the time or stay at home waiting for him to have time for me.
I know this from experience. However, be careful to not ask something that may offend your date. It sounds like you HAVE done your best in the past. So I am at my dating prime. I wrote about the doctor I dated on my blog "Fifty Shades of Rey. I hope it all works out for you. It's like talking to a wall. Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.