No where did I say, nor I think indicate, that I thought this wasn't a complex issue, or that this girl is a caricature. Once she realizes you won't join and she can't get married in the temple, then I suspect everything will be over. I now think that 2 is the only reasonable choice to make, even as a man в staying single my whole life в until and unless I find the woman whom I cannot live without, the woman who is a true companion to me. To those asking about pre-med boyfriends, mcat, first year, med school boyfriends: You never accomplish half what you set out to do, and taking practice exams is the most anxiety provoking experience.
Please don't take it the wrong way if he says that a few minutes on the phone is more than he can handle. It's so sad to think that people so young will be stuck wearing 19th century undies when they should enjoy their years of being young and stylish. I seriously could have been the one to write most of that about my situation.
His job prevents you much access to him. Eventually I hope each wards get to a point where they know that as a ward family our job is simply to make sure that each person, member or non member knows that when they enter the house of the Lord, they are loved. His whole family joined after he did. Look, as a shelia, its no different from a bloke. Raising our children as believers is proving to be very tricky. A lot of people will tell you to run but if she is in her late 20s most Mormon guys her age are married. So how do we approach saving a relationship with someone who has unrealistic expectations of what a long-term relationship looks like. If you have dated a doctor or other abnormally busy person or are in the medical profession yourself that would be particularly helpful, but I'll gladly take any words of wisdom.
I want to make this relationship work so bad, but I feel like he will never understand. Hello to everyone in this thread. Marry a person based on his character, not his religion.