December 18, Please tell me you're not in NC, dagny. Why the Mormon Church is Not a Cult. God be with you all. Having seen many examples of the disaster it becomes when a member spouse pushes, coerces, ultimatums the non-member spouse into being baptized, I have very assiduously steered clear of those methods from the start. Honestly, unless you want to convert and: And, if she does claim those things don't matter, be prepared to find out how much they really do after you've married her. Every new set in our ward looks at him as fresh meat. Im sooooo happy i've found this blog!!. Let him respond before you say anything else. Ask him if he's not seeing you to not commit. Best wishes to those struggling with these big, life-altering decisions.
God knows the big picture. As a budding feminist, I left the church in my teens. January 17, February 18, Spending time with this guy is hard to come by. Best of luck OP. Nothing beats a face to face talk. Especially if they're devote enough to expect you to marry in heaven, huge implications with that one. Sorry you had to go through this, but it's for the best if she's about to leave on a mission. If things get even more serious, try getting her to sign a pre-nup that neither she, nor her family will try to convert you. Look for girls in your singles ward. So, one would one think, "yay, she works, has a life and friends and has avoided the ongoing loneliness and "empty nest syndrome".
I believe that there will be a lot more mercy than justice being dished out at the judgment. Hell we haven't even gone in a date yet. There are many professions that leave the spouse carrying the bulk of every day family life. Your opportunities may not. Keep me posted, please. My relationship is the same way. But I'm wondering about one thing: Do I have cause to be scared out of my mind, or should I just take a chill pill. And you seem like a good person.