Trust me, though--you will. If you can't do that, realizing that your partner may never come around to your side of things, you are not ready to marry this person. Wish I knew ways on how to cope with being a girlfriend to a doctor. I think my husband would do okay with the loneliness - just like I do.
Having said that I'm not looking to get married any time soon, so no. She still has another year of residency but I am hoping she chooses a specialty that is not as demanding on her time. Mormon women greatly value sincerity of purpose. Chances are you can't though. Anyway, before you marry you should work out anything hypothetical that might come up in the future. It sucks to admit, but I broke up with him after 6 months because I didn't think there was any point if we couldn't be together forever. Even Mormon girls who marry non-Mormons want great dads for their kids, and they are oriented to having kids, sometimes many kids. He then proceeded to beat the shit out of her for a decade.
In the end, if the guy is the keeper you say he is then go with your gut. She sounds so indoctrinated that like even if you try to get her to open up, who knows you might get like a BJ out of it doesn't sound like it but who knowsyou have to realize that a lifetime of conditioning will be set in motion in her mind that will make your life hell. The right age for getting married varies depends for men and women. But God works in mysterious ways.
If you end up marrying a true believing Mormon, your marriage will be a threesome. I spent a lot of time on my knees and made several trips to the temple before I felt l could trust that what I knew I wanted to be promptings actually were. Now that I am married, it has become more apparent that his previous comments about not minding if his wife has a career, were not entirely accurate. Initially I thought he would join the church and life would get back on the only track I knew. I know we don't know each other, but it seems like we all share a commonality that connects us all very deeply.