The thing about General Authorities and General Conference, is that they give general counsel that is meant for the general population. I agree with what you and so many of the other replies have said: Listen with an open heart and curiosity. But she understands that I am committed to the Gospel, and will never leave it either. Want to add to the discussion. He performs multiple interventional cardiac procedures and saves many lives daily. This could possibly be worked out with some communication; perhaps he just hasn't given it enough thought to realize how shitty it is It's very inconsiderate of him. Plx express what yu think as you ladies are more experienced in this stuff.
I have had to compromise more often than I would have liked. Our relationship is not perfect, not easy, but absolutely amazing. If he's in year 1 of the residency, he's got probably years left finishing residency then fellowship.
It's gonna hurt, and it's gonna break her heart, but much less so than waiting until you've both committed to each other and start discussing your future together. I was going to be alone in the marrige working hard and planning for the two of us whiles my wife's emotions and energy was spent on other people. All that being said, no one can tell you what is right for you except Heavenly Father. I have rediscovered what I love about the church but choose not to attend or participate. This means first being clear that you want to go on a date. I guess I want to know if I do decided to start my future with him, should I expect to be constantly cheated on and be okay with it. Here is a list of reasons I feel apply to my situation в some of them in retrospect:. While I knew that she'd be busy with her studies, she did make good efforts to spend time with me at least once a week and things all seemed fine.
Mormon theology is pretty clear: But Mormon theology is also rich with opportunities for second chances. But I ultimately leave it to him most times. I believe in temple marriage, and in the importance of those covenants. Anything she learned about mormonsim, she wanted to learn on her own. Some of the guests talked about the importance of helping hard core mormons to be open and accepting to ALL their brothers and sisters in the church, regardless of sexual orientation. But I got tired of that, and I made it clear to him that I will stay in with him as often as he wants, put him to bed, make food with him or for him, clean, etc. These are things your wife may consider matter-of-fact and you may be surprised by if you don't discuss them now. There are other issues at play here that are my husband's personal history and that he is now trying to come to grips with, and I have hope that we can put our marriage and our family back together-but the job marches on, relentlessly, and there is no time allotted for personal healing. Be with a nice guy and a doctor who will not put himself or his love for money first or his ego first. But on saying that I do empathise with you all and a Doctor is very challenging and I know my Dad was always working and it is a demanding job for their spouses to live their lives but hey nothing at the top is ever easy.