This guy was orbiting so strongly that he changed his religion before they were even dating. After residency, depending on what specialty they do, there will be a separate set of rules of how they have to give their time oncall, early surgery times, working holidays etc. I am his wife and we have 4 children. I believe that marriage and kids is not something that can't be handled, I'm sure that once kids arrive somehow both parents will do whatever it takes to be there for the kids, however I'm also sure that you will be the one most likely to carry the weight a bit more and of course feel it too.
Also, they are encouraged to date in groups and not pair off alone, so if your date insists on the same, then agree politely. My husband is more relaxed now - even with 14 hour days - and yes, I am starting to feel like he is "coming back". If she expresses interest in converting, be prepared to talk about your beliefs, and help her find ways to learn about and follow them. The views expressed by individual users are the responsibility of those users and do not necessarily represent the position of the Church. When those are not around or when the circumstances or the spirit indicate otherwise then prayer is more than enough.
January 4, at 2: January 21, at 9: January 28, at March 20, at 5: May 30, at 5: June 29, at June 14, at 5: August 12, at 9: August 20, at 6: Leave a Reply Cancel reply Enter your comment here Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Email required Address never made public. Marriage does weird things to Mormons You're correct, that he should ask her these things would you marry a non Mormon. This is especially true when you are around others. She sounds so indoctrinated that like even if you try to get her to open up, who knows you might get like a BJ out of it doesn't sound like it but who knowsyou have to realize that a lifetime of conditioning will be set in motion in her mind that will make your life hell. That doesn't get better unless you humble yourself, either -- admit you might be wrong. Anecdotes vs a much larger sample size. She encourages me to develop my skills and talents, and provides an example in several of those areas. She might not be keeping the Word of Wisdom, living according to the Law of Chastity, or attending church regularly. He was patient and supportive, promising to continue acting like a TBM for as long as I wanted our baby is 4, so that likely would have been at least 14 years.
He has always had a tremendous caseload and often grueling call schedule. Many Mormon girls place the cart before the horse. Congratulations on understanding that and avoiding problems.