I know that she's even getting her stuff ready to go on her mission. Maybe it won't be a big deal. The church is very important to her. By those standards, I was a failure, my husband wasn't "good enough" - and my daughter had ambitious real goals that required a lot of time and effort. I married a person, not a religion.
There were times I asked him if he was seeing someone else and both times he answered no. I have been on both sides of this situation, and I know how much it sucks to feel like you're doing everything you can to make it as easy and convenient as possible for the other person to spend time with you, but theyre still not seeing you all that much, and you think they should be able to give you a little more. She found the perfect Mormon guy, they were married in the temple. But I loved this girl more than anything in life. She's told me the church is one of the most important things to her, but from what I've researched already there's no way I would subject my future children to this culture.
I made a conscious decision to marry outside the church for my own reasons. If all the Mormons truly were the pricks we often claim them to be, then Mormonism would be the perfect punishment for them. But you are setting yourself up to leave the Church more easily, and even if you agree the children will be raised Mormon, your kids will likely not continue to participate in the Church as adults. What if love is looking someone in the eye and saying, "You're making the biggest mistake of your life. And he needs to trust his instincts if he thinks she's being dishonest. Having said that I'm not looking to get married any time soon, so no. So I understand how it's easy to believe nonsense when you're brainwashed from birth, and how it can be comforting to believe your life is somehow very important in the grand scale of the universe, and how you don't have to be afraid of death because you'll go on to a better place where you'll live happily ever after for eternity. He will eventually have more time for you, but right now he is likely giving you all the time that he can, even though it is very little. Why Mormons don't hate gay people.
Most couples who are married where one is a Mormon and the other isn't, usually stems from a situation where they both were married in the temple, then one of them lost their faith sometime after that. Wow, so nice to know others feel just like me. Break up with her.