I learned to read by reading the Book of Mormon. Let her go right now then. Will he possible convert just to make you happy without really buying into it. Many symptoms of pain and discomfort can only be diagnosed with tests at the hospital. Lonliness is hard no matter the reason for it. She might want to follow the 'virgin until marriage' part, or she may personally decide to forego following that in secret. I've been holding out, mostly contentedly, for a time when we could appreciate each other as unique individuals.
As Joanne mentioned, should you marry interfaith, you will have lots of help from fellow ward members on converting your spouse. You need to do this ceremony first where you end up pledging all your money and property to the church:. How could I help a non-Mormon spouse to feel like a member of my ward family when he is not a member of my church. I would think that a comprise between you getting missionary discussions and her reading the CES letter would be even.
Leave her so you can both find people that youre more suited for. I am an extrovert too, I do feel lonely when my husband is not around on weekends or holidays or when I fall sick. It has just made me realize that these formulas a lot of us Mormons learn growing up about how to have a happy marriage are, well, crap. Fellowship was worse and now that my doc has been an attending for 2 years, it is worse than it has ever been. But that is a nice gesture, and he will appreciate it. He is absolutely, hands-down my favorite human being on the planet. But I do still largely consider us an interfaith couple. I get to experience the joys of his culture, which I never would have known otherwise. I am so in love with him and he says he is too minus the stupid cheating.
It's been really helpful already. Now it's easier, as they are older, and he's making more time for them. Early in our relationship, I gave some thought to the question of whether I would ever be willing to marry a non-Mormon. I had been teetering on the fringes for quite a long time, mostly coming to Church but not really being present, because I felt like an outcast as an older single. That was my experience. To me, the core question is, is this person inclined toward self transcendence are the inclined, desirous, self aware enough to be selfless. It has worked and my children are very protective of their father. You can't gamble on her seeing Mormonism for the shit show that it is. Dont aggressively try to destroy her faith but bring up philosophical thinking points. Again, though the evolving times may have brought about a relaxation in this rule, it is still followed by many youngsters.