That's probably true, and that would be a great thing for her, but they wouldn't see it that way. It's a fair question and you've already been super accommodating. They know that they are the best. I wanted that full support though I am certainly not saying that marrying a Mormon ensures that. Ultimately we broke up. I mostly attribute this to lack of sleep, but I also think he is treated better as a fellow -- by everyone. If she was anything like me, that idea is probably foreign, radical, confusing, interesting, and inspiring to her. Can they keep a job and or clean up after themselves. We will see what life has in stock for me and this brilliant cardiologist. So that may be the end of it there.
I am married to an interventional cardiologist. Our communication is almost gone to none, he needs a lot a lot of alone time to achieve his career while i am really worried that how much longer i can live like this!!. Have been MD in good relationship for 25 years with kids etc but key is that my wife has her own life and works as hard as I do at her own career and isn't caught up in my world. RUN like the wind. If he weren't a doctor saving lives and had more free time, he could most definitely do YOUR job.
Go on your different ways as friends and don't expect your relationship to go anywhere. She asked me the other night how it's possible for me to be such a good person when I don't believe in god. Most of the time, your boyfriend will be on call or at the hospital whenever you make plans with your friends or family. Just trying to make it through the week. We can also save our errant children by our valiancy too. But what if your girlfriend is Mormon, but not active in the Church. I have no support in this and so many of the DW have just accepted this life I just cant ,I want more There are so many days I wish I had a normal life and he had a normal job.
Please share your dating experience with a doctor or a medical resident. Thanks for pointing this stuff out. I'm a Mormon girl in love with an amazing non-Mormon man. It did not go well. He does not place the marriage above it. I believe that there will be a lot more mercy than justice being dished out at the judgment. I'm a nevermo, but I married a then TBM girl, so maybe my perspective will be of help to you. I love my non-member husband of nearly 20 years. I'm not marrying to be a single, working mom with money.