A straight-laced, returned sister missionary, raised in the cult, and in family of similarly entrenched cult members, will not likely remain happy with a non-member. An important is doing this together. First, my dad was a wonderful husband to my mother the greatest mom on earthand a wonderful father to me. He then proceeded to beat the shit out of her for a decade. Ask questions, try to find out as much as you can. But what I discovered surprised me. You;ll get the answer you needвprayers and blessings for you both.
Good advice for "newbie" docs and spouses. If we do get married I may have to foot more of the bills. She asked me to read that site and write down questions. There is no freedom to think, no freedom to speak your mind, and no freedom to do anything that 'the brethren' say not to. Hi, I'm so glad to be able to enter this forum. And he likes the idea of us raising our daughter with the values the Mormon church instills on their youth. This brings me to the thorniest bit: If your wife is Mormon, your kids will be expected to be Mormon. I have a friend who identifies as bi-gendered and often feels most comfortable in femme. Keep in touch, keep it light and understand he is under a lot of pressure right now.
By the end of the first date with my husband I knew I wanted him to be a part of my life. Nobody has prepared her for one, definitely haven't prepared her for a healthy physical relationship. His hospital "family" protected this information well, silently acquiescing and even approving his behavior. I do not have the answer в but I keep trying to figure it out.
Adding an interfaith element means you have many more adjustments to make. But God works in mysterious ways. She will introduce you to the church. This is normal for residents. If she is full on Mormon, this relationship will go one of two ways: You will convert and change your entire lifestyle and personality to conform with her expectations never to deconvert or you will face severe penalitesor you will break up because you won't convert and change everything about yourself. You can't reason with fanatics, and you got one.