Don't fall in love with a married man. One small thing to add here. I wish you the best of luck. I gave her a piece of my mind as my home is much happier and healthy now then when I was married to my x. Medical school and residency is really intense, and I think it's pretty common for doctors to get married a little later in life than the average couple. Dating a resident is hard - it was hard to realize that I can't come first, or even second, in this relationship right now.
That being said, we have built something beautiful and good, have modeled loving responsibility and accountability to our kids, and I am certain I am with the man God chose for me. But I have no idea how much of his lack of contact is actually due to him being busy or if that's just an excuse to not commit. And now, a final word: Send your query to askmormongirl gmail. I love my former Mormon friends and family, but a relationship requires devotion and trust and understanding.
Hey Guys- I as well married a female Doc. Take the missionary lessons, read the Book of Mormon and the Bible. I know how long his residency lasts. I think it might be worth trying. I had been teetering on the fringes for quite a long time, mostly coming to Church but not really being present, because I felt like an outcast as an older single. No one, except someone who has been Mormon can understand how deep the hooks are sunk into the Mormon psyche. Spending a lifetime single is not something most people would choose to do, but fear of being forever single should never be a deciding factor in entering a marriage, lest serious problems go unaddressed before serious commitments are made. It's gonna end regardless not trying to be a dick, but that is what is going to happen eventuallyso be smart and cut your losses before it gets harder.
April 05, There are ways to avoid blue balls ya know. It would be ludicrous to think otherwise. And if it's notyou need to find someone in a different field. He isn't always around for holidays, birthdays, or anniversaries. He wanted our kids exposed to Christianity for intellectual reasons and likes the community. To sum up, they're incapable of loving anyone but themselves and the thought of a marriage counselor freaks them out as this would mean confronting their ultimate excuse of "I'm too busy".