If you can't do that, realizing that your partner may never come around to your side of things, you are not ready to marry this person. I feel selfish to never be around but this is my dream so much so that I refuse to have children because I dont want my kids to have a workaholic mother who's never there. I get it; I just don't buy into it. She might not be keeping the Word of Wisdom, living according to the Law of Chastity, or attending church regularly. BYU was once the perfect place to find a great young woman and get married. I have been dating a doctor for over two years now and we have talked about marriage, as well as some of the challenges his job will entail. Through this, if you run into unforeseen issues like sold out movies or you cannot get a seat at a restaurant, you will always have a backup plan. Or get them met elsewhere. I can't emphasize this strongly enough. So I understand how it's easy to believe nonsense when you're brainwashed from birth, and how it can be comforting to believe your life is somehow very important in the grand scale of the universe, and how you don't have to be afraid of death because you'll go on to a better place where you'll live happily ever after for eternity.
Give yourself some credit for being attracted to the good side of the Force. Is he aware that if your children are faithful members of the church they might end of marrying in the temple and he would not be allowed to attend the ceremony. Is he aware that if your children are faithful members of the church they might end of marrying in the temple and he would not be allowed to attend the ceremony. No one appreciates how demanding it is unless they have lived it, many friends over the years said to me "lucky you, you are married to a Doctor. I knew intern year would be brutal and I hoped residency would be a little better, and it was. Be open-minded; accept that different people have different beliefs, and that they do not always have to match with yours. After about 3 months of his occasional interjecting of facts See that 14 year old girl. All faiths have vocabulary unique to them. Learning from a young age that any religion will do means that your children almost certainly will ultimately believe that any religion will do. Am I sure I can handle the lifestyle.
We should all remember this is a human being, and she has a brain. He is in a way to become a Ex mormon. If you can't do that, realizing that your partner may never come around to your side of things, you are not ready to marry this person. Or, if I'm at work, even though I'm constantly busy, even if I wasn't, I can't just pull my phone out and call--i'm at work. But I loved this girl more than anything in life. We raised 2 wonderful children who are now happy and successful adults. I hope I can forgive it someday, but even still my anger is red hot. Additionally, just as corporate cultures exist, so does it exist for every family.
About two years into our marriage, I got sick of waiting in bed for him to come read scriptures with me. We met after he finished his residency and started working as an ER director. There's a ton of crazy in what we were taught all our lives. You need to do this ceremony first where you end up pledging all your money and property to the church: It's cruel to suggest it. Ok, so what concerns do you have about the biggest difference of allвwhen your child brings home a potential mate of a completely different gender.