Matching caused a lot of drama in our relationship. And I resent being viewed as just the wife of a doctor rather than my own person with her own accomplishments and aspirations. I say to you, decisions determine destiny. If you do attend parties like that, expect her to drink 7-Up and volunteer as the designated driver, and to be completely repulsed if you drink too much. Just go ahead and ask for the definitions and treat it like learning a new language. You are the woman of valor eshet khayil sung about by Solomon in Proverbs 31 http: Good for you, good for your husband, and definitely good for your childen. Now that I am trying to MCAT study for at least 2 hours a day the pressure to find time together is really high.
We are now in Residency, have moved each year and started a new adventure each year since marriage. I've been married to a doctor for 5 years now been together for 11 years and he is in his first year of Anaesthetics. He is not a member and has told me he is not going to convert. Finding a person with whom your wavelength matches, and around whom you feel you can just be yourself, talk about anything, and not be worried about being judged, is not as easy as the romantic movies and TV soaps make it out to be.
A lot of Mormons escape that pitfall and can put people first. Sexuality is the enemy of romance, and romance is amazing. I'll definitely talk with her about my concerns, and will be spending time with her family over the upcoming holidays so that will be a good chance to see how they treat me.
I've luckily broken down my GF's defenses about the church a little bit. I've been the main parent for 30 years. Good luck to you and your family with the rest of fellowship. The rest of it is all just the normal course of events for someone in this situation, but this isn't a good sign: If he were thinking about you, he'd contact you when he does have the rare free minute or two. In high demand" I would be out the door.