They have heavy-handed laws, free handouts, unfair advantages for getting jobsвa loud feminist illusion spoon fed to them. Anyways, any advice on which of those times would be best since I know both have to be a sacrifice for him of some sort. Please think carefully before marrying with someone works in medical industry. He will have to be okay with being thought not good enough to help in circumstances in which you believe that priesthood power is needed. Let them explore and see the many people who love Heavenly Father and serve him with all their heart.
Anyway, before you marry you should work out anything hypothetical that might come up in the future. I hated it so much, in fact, that I ran off to China. There will, in fact, still be churches besides our own. Unless you have those same understandings, I'm sad to say the relationship is almost certainly doomed. I have been a doctor's wife for 1 year now and we've been together for 7 years.
Also, as Joanna points out, men and women already inhabit a separate culture. Be specific every time you ask. My husband is more relaxed now - even with 14 hour days - and yes, I am starting to feel like he is "coming back".
These are also only the American statistics. I've told him multiple times that I don't care how much money he'll make, but one of his big things is that he wants to provide for me and his family in the future, with that being one of his main motivators. If you have a literal belief that you need to have a temple marriage to go to the celestial kingdom, you will always keep a secret desire to convert your spouse. As for having children, expect to be a single parent. However, I believe there are rules set, and we receive certain blessings when we obey said rules. Communication is crucial, and even if we don't see each other for several days at a time, it's important to be on the same page. Sorry you had to go through this, but it's for the best if she's about to leave on a mission.