Residents work an insane amount of hours. Hire out as many household chores as you can afford housekeeping, lawn care etc. When we were dating he made it very clear to me that he had no desire to come back to church. Interestingly, my parents felt the same way about him. Also, I'm not involved with a doctor but I am an RN and spend quite a bit of time with them. Anyway, before you marry you should work out anything hypothetical that might come up in the future. If she won't reason with your investigation of the church, nope on out and go on your merry way.
Meaning that unless you are willing to become Mormon And your savings account. Thank you so much for your comment. It works, though, because I know that his beliefs have great worth. My husband has gone from proselytizing and thinking he knows it all to a real spiritual seeker, albeit with a strong testimony in the church. There is no such thing as a perfect Mormon family- regardless of whether the parents are sealed or not. She will want her kids blessed, baptized, taking temple trips to baptize for the dead, hold the priesthood, a bishop will ask you sons and daughters if they masterbate and punish them if they do, etc. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again.
I will, and have said before that is is one of the worst decisions to marry a doctor also. Marriage offers a chance to develop generosity of spirit and a willingness to be improved by the one we love, no matter what faith tradition he or she may claim. You love a medical guy.
What part of SoCal are you in. Find out what your partner thinks of as non-negotiable. I wouldn't end a relationship with her, just as I wouldn't deny someone a job, or refuse to socialize with someone who is a Mormon. No tactless posts generalizing gender. Will people have feelings about your interfaith marriage.