But my choice seems to be build a life so I am not lonely all the time or stay at home waiting for him to have time for me. I had a business, 3 engineering degrees, numerous patents, and was working countless hours a week to try and keep a roof over our heads, make sure she was fed, the house was clean, bills were paid, etc. But from what you said, this girl doesn't sound like she is going to be content to have a marriage for time only. I suggest to run as it will not get better. Loneliness seems to be a part of being a wife of a doc in training, and at times all I can think of is simply getting over a day at a time. And generally those people seem to have great difficulty in breaking off the relationship, even though they are told that it is a dead-end situation that will cause them big trouble in the future. Realize that your Dr spouse isn't intentionally wanting to make you feel lonely or depressed, and they most likely feel as isolated by their work as you do. My experience with non members has been so much more meaningful and caring. Though I am yet to see if we would make it.
As my husband learns about Mormonism I get to see it through his fresh eyes. Given the high divorce rate in this particular specialty, it might have helped him if there were people in the environment who questioned his behavior or at the very least, registered some sort of disapproval. Most mormon girls look at guys like you as a project and that they have a lifetime to work on the project. I was not in any way dissing her personally, nor dissing her at all, really Many people here have told the guy to run; I just went into more detail. Since her father is a bishop, I'm sure he'll want to have his daughter marry a temple worthy person. Helpful way to learn the facts in a fast and funny format.
It's been really helpful already. So while I believe that, in fact, non-celestial families still can be together forever, I also think that there must be great merit to qualifying for the whole Enchiladaвwhich I perhaps cannot fully appreciate at this time. The answer is, most emphatically, NO. The two of you can get married in the temple and live together forever for eternity. Home no title About Contact. Stop trying to make up for all the little things you miss with big short-term things. Honestly, I don't have very good advice, but keep being you and hopefully she won't let her religion blind her like it blinded me. If you and she are sealed in a Mormon temple, your children will be can be sealed to you. Somewhere down the road, you will find another girl who will be a much better match for you.
And Mormons were basically encouraged to marry other mormons. I love his way of loving me,his compassion towards our relationship,his loyalty ,reason for mine marrying him not for his paycheck but I guess I also need a companion,a life partner,someone who will be beside me when ill be needing him the most. Looking back, I can say that when I received this answer to my prayers, I was at one of the most spiritually high moments of my life. Think of it as giving him a prompt, and now he gets to give his thoughts. She'll be hoping that you're going to convert and if neither is happy with the other being as they are, you'll find yourself divorced shortly down the road. That said, there are also a lot of pricks inside the church, who fully deserve membership.