There are over promises in the Bible. Even Mormon girls who marry non-Mormons want great dads for their kids, and they are oriented to having kids, sometimes many kids. There is still a chance you can work out your differences, but it will require major concessions on both sides. Mormonism is a big thing for those who follow the faith, so Sundays and the occasional event depending on how much she does extra might distract her. Love does a lot. I was thinking the same thing when I read this. I believe that marriage and kids is not something that can't be handled, I'm sure that once kids arrive somehow both parents will do whatever it takes to be there for the kids, however I'm also sure that you will be the one most likely to carry the weight a bit more and of course feel it too. He was patient and supportive, promising to continue acting like a TBM for as long as I wanted our baby is 4, so that likely would have been at least 14 years.
Is forever possible with a doctor??. If you feel peaceful with your decision and you feel it is right that should be helpful. In order for him to survive his residency much less thrive in itthe hospital has to come first, he has to come second, and I come in at third place. How do you really feel about that. It's a less common occurrence, but it happens. Married to a Surgeon as well. I admit it is sometimes depressing going to bed without him and getting up seeing him still studying but I am sure we will survive this.
But I don't know that he does the same for me. Yet others are really great human beings. The submariner's wives are in a similar situation. Sorry you had to go through this, but it's for the best if she's about to leave on a mission. Am I resentful - yes!!. I am someone who loves quality time a lot. If she was anything like me, that idea is probably foreign, radical, confusing, interesting, and inspiring to her. I was to late in that. He's just not that into you. I let her know I'd been reading on LDS.
My wife and her family are a good example of this. I'm not going to break up with her because of her religion, but if we can't come to some kind of understanding about what we'd do with kids After reading every page of that CES letter I am fully aware this religion is a complete fabrication. Someday she may really regret everything, and miss you like crazy. This is crunch time and years worth of effort are on the line for him. That being sais, just be honest.