I haven't read every post like you probably havebut I've read a lot of them. I'm not quite bitter but a tad fed up as have given up family, career, friends and started afresh x 2 again to be left alone at the other side of the planet with two young kids, moving house and setting up home with just 4 suitcases. Weirdly, one of the best sexes I ever had was with a lesbian who felt remorse and as though she had betrayed her fellow lesbians. If He can answer prayers to help you find missing car keys, He surely can help you understand who it is that you should marry. He is a great man and I know he will always put his family first but this is such a hard decision. He should tell her that he will never convert, and that if she will not be happy unless he does, the relationship should end. You are too young to deal with this. That said, I would be fully aware that Mormonism is going to compel even the best of them to do some truly horrendous stuff at times.
Whatever you do, just don't let on to your child ren that you and their father are in disagreement. You should ask yourself if you want to pursue a future partner who was raised in an environment that causes drastic sexual suppression and you may never have a healthy sex life if she is your wife. Learn more about the LDS Church. It takes a special person to be a doctor's spouse. Imagine if I had a panic attack every day at 10am?!.
Little did I know that at least some of these "emergencies" were actually rendezvous with his affair partner. Of course, arguments happened because I felt neglected at times step 1 and 2 studying or he left dirty laundry in the bathroom. Anyone who's a decent human being should be able to know right from wrong and act accordingly. If I were you, I would sever the relationship and find someone else. I know a Doctor who drug his wife and 2 children across the US to begin his residency.
Or does this sound more like a conscious choice he's making not to get invested in this. You join the LDS Church. I'm so comforted by this thread. Although, I also would question the fact that you're doing all the contacting I just do not text anyone that often or call people. There will, in fact, still be churches besides our own. If it seems one is unable to find a spouse within the church, which commandment do you keep. If my mother needed her surgeon's attention, I wouldn't want him to be thinking about his wife's lamenting that he's never home, not romantic, etc. Sorry, you can't reply to this topic.