At the very least, I might have tried to persuade my husband to pursue a different career, if only a less-demanding area of medicine. His dad and siblings are also doctors, hence his mom is quite use to the idea of being alone and independent. This came about after many hours and many days of prayer, scripture study, going to the temple, receiving a priesthood blessing, and speaking with people I greatly trust my mom, especially. Maybe we'll break up in a month. Its always for his prior commitment that we always end up cancelling our plan of being together. Every school events, social gathering, especially weekend calls is making me sad. Are there things you've had to compromise on to mutually make it work.
Life is a journey and going through it with a true partner, and a mutual respect for curiosity, is so far greatly rewarding. Single women who are educated, regardless of religion, are also going to find similar gender imbalances among their educated peers nowadays. What do you think is a reasonable expectation for how much time you will spend together, how often you will talk, etc. That my heavenly father hates my decision to marry my husband. It doesn't get better. Rights of all genders are supported here.
Still, I would be interested to hear your perspective and that of your readers. However, for me, there have been some perks too. Welcome to TwoXChromosomes, a subreddit for both serious and silly content, and intended for women's perspectives. I seriously questioned the future of our relationship based on that fact alone. I'm not going to live my life in regret I know it sounds terrible but you gotta do what you gotta do.