This I knew before we married and accepted. Be prepared for divorce. It would likely be seen as a trial in her life. How do I help sustain and grow our communication under the circumstance. This is because if your relationship gets serious and you guys get married, then she may have to forgo many of the customs of her religion. Find someone who isn't part of a cult. Same goes for holidays-flip a coin. She was expecting me to break up with her, like all previous guys she's been into have done. My mother now uses her time in saving stray dogs and helping the poor while my father is away which is everyday. Females are not expected to serve and MOST of the girls that do, only do so because they do not have a suitable read: If your GF is an attractive girl and still ended up on a mission then she is about as fanatical as they come and if she isn't already she will be slowly trying to convert you.
We like each other, but I feel like giving up also at times. Your mids is still young. March 18, Run for the hills. Two people can be as completely different as it is possible to be and respect each others' beliefs. If my husband and I had been dating during any of this, it would not have lasted long a few weeks maximum. I learned how truly very Mormon I really am, to the deepest part of my soul. Unless you convert she won't marry you, plain and simple. We are best friends.
There are a lot of single people in the world. I am so confused. Thanks again for the continued comments and replies to my edit. It will poison your marriage until the end в of your life, your marriage, or your belief. Attacking other posters is not allowed, but this forum recognizes the difference between a belief and the person holding to that belief. NeverMo in CA Date: NeverMo in CA Wrote: I've read many of the stories here and I know the religion is toxic. Mormons are very strict about avoiding sex outside of marriage. There are two ways to go about this. My ex-boyfriend and I dated for four and a half years and recently broke up.
You can't force her to change, nor should you if you could. Maybe about a year ago. It's a foolish dream I suppose. The Mormon university BYU is quickly falling due to these feminists. You can ask her directly, or through sources like other Mormons or reading their books. And frankly, you feel like such a loser. This isn't what I expected.