That doesn't get better unless you humble yourself, either -- admit you might be wrong. Don't forget too that IF you are successful in turning the lights on and deconverting her, the family would resent you the rest of their lives. What can I or your spouse do to make my spouse feel more important besides not being a physician. He will have to be okay with being thought not good enough to help in circumstances in which you believe that priesthood power is needed. Over the past year he has been telling me that he feels second to my schoolwork and my other responsibilities. For me and the woman I'm in love with, we CAN discuss it without breaking down into spittle and hate. Go for the joy, the experiences, the children to come. I think about leaving all the time now because by myself there are no disappointments. It takes him about 20 minutes to get ready.
Not being an RM, they weren't really interested in me. Move on, but after thanksgiving. But this phase isn't going to be short. If you stay together l, you are going to have to remind her of that commitment. At that point we quit going and focused on her goals and family bonding. If I even mention wanting to talk just about normal life things, I am told not to tilt the balance between problems and fun. I'm sorry this was so longwinded and not really an answer to your questions. You've stated that she had numerous guys break up with her after she took sex off the table. That and this recent article https: They are trying to explain how it's ok that the founder used a magic rock to hunt for buried treasure to earn money, and then used that same "seer stone" to translate the Book of Mormon. Our relationship is not perfect, not easy, but absolutely amazing.
I mentioned in another post that I am okay with us not seeing each other all the time. I'm quite willing to take you at your word, but my guess is that academia had nothing to do with your ex being immature. As someone born and raised in the church this has been very difficult to moderate and there is some social pressure to become more involved. They believe that the body is a temple that needs to be worshiped, and that inner beauty is more important. God brought the two of us together, and we are truly in love. Mormonism and Non-Mormonism don't link to future lives. My faith, while less orthodox, has certainly matured. It sucks but ultimately what Mormonism does to people is it makes them value adherence to church more than their relationships with people.
We all know people who know that the gospel is true but they will not accept it. By those standards, I was a failure, my husband wasn't "good enough" - and my daughter had ambitious real goals that required a lot of time and effort. Till then, I know I should be more patient and understanding than any ordinary wife is. I know, I know, this is the last thing you want to hear. As teaching staff, he still works more hours than the residents on average and pulls call about twice a week.