Put your best foot forward; be soft-spoken, courteous, well-mannered, chivalrous, and respectful. I have been married to a doctor for 5 years now and we have two children. She's already past her prime in the Mormon dating market.
You just can't imagine the heap o' hurt you're potentially setting yourself up for. Do you want a home that is focused on the church with all of the blessings there of or a home that is devoid of the blessings of the priesthood, Sundays without your husband at your side at church with your children celebrating in the gospel. I have missed the Church in some ways, and certainly the blessings of a temple marriage. Disease and Condition Articles. There will be struggles in marriage and childrearing whether or not he is a member. December 19, OK, you're off the hook, mine was in the 70's too, but I hadn't been to CA by then. They are at the service of others at the expense of their family.
But our marriage is strong, and our children are good people. At the end of the second date I knew I needed him in my life. If your date has been an active member of the Church who is following these moral guidelines, then she will not be willing to involve herself in a sexual relationship with you.
I am also going thru the same thing. What goes on in those sacred temples. And it can be done any time during the day, so scheduling is easy. BYU was once the perfect place to find a great young woman and get married. Know there are a lot of Doctors who cheat though. If you can live with some auxiliary authority in your life knowing that your wife will, as necessary, bend to its will instead of yours, you'll cross those bridges as you come to them.