It is really hard and so good to see that I am not alone in this. When I taught GD we discussd the lessons. I hated it so much, in fact, that I ran off to China. In each case, you should also consider how this will affect your families. I think you need to figure out if you are willing to stay in a relationship with a man who's so busy, because trust me, it's not going to change anytime soon. It is how she is programmed and it is a fundamental tenant of the religion. Should I consider giving up my PhD plans, take up whatever job I can based on my commitments or I should look for somebody with whom my profession is more compatible. Some Mormon girls succumb to worldly laziness. You will get to mingle with a lot of new people, and who knows, maybe you will also find the guy or girl of your dreams there. I am a very independent person socially so I often do not think to call people just because I am fine doing things myself.
All you have to do is be honest about your username here and you'll never see her again. Maybe things would be have different if I had been older or if I had not been so fragile. She probably doesn't even realize how crazy that is. I was happy to read your blog. I get it; I just don't buy into it.
That being said, there are some facets of the religion that you should be aware of that will influence how she approaches both you and the relationship. Vh65, your marriage is a black swan. Do you work through parent teacher conferences and the entire soccer season. It is tempting for Mormon girls to become lazy because they have such a high standard compared to typical girls. You can't provide that for her so your marriage will be defective from the outset. She was expecting me to break up with her, like all previous guys she's been into have done. When you are a man married to a female doctor.
I've read through some stuff there and it all seems pretty tame so far. How will this all be once we have children?. You might need to trade missionary lessons for research on her part, and we can suggest less scary resources. So that may be the end of it there. Well the pieces will all fall into place. The relationship never went anywhere but was always happy to help and he was very grateful. For whatever reason, none of them ever seemed that interested in me I freely admit this could have been cluelessness on my partand so never turned serious. Lack of motivation and endless loneliness that has caused me to be a lazy 15 pounds heavier woman. So I'm wondering if things will ever change or if this is just one of the drawbacks of dating a doctor.