So now I am here and I have made a go of it for a year, found a new job, made new friends, tried to grow to like a culture that is foreign to me. That's one great thing about the internet and blogging That is exactly how I feel. Think about what you want in a relationship. You have to have very thick skin to stay in it. How do you handle the ocd behavior. I wish you all well on your recovery from this particularly vile church. I have many friends and members of my family who married within the church and later divorced. This blog has been so helpful.
In the meantime, she will probably view you as being less than a Mormon man who is a faithful priesthood holder. I love him more than life, He says the hours will get better after residency I really hope so. Bottom line pardon the 'pun' is that what spoils being a Doctors wife is accentuated by female patients who try to impress via way of dress and or behaviour Lets face it - being a Doctor is something that many females find attractive My thoughts are with all Doctors wives. That said, I would be fully aware that Mormonism is going to compel even the best of them to do some truly horrendous stuff at times. He may never want anything to do with Mormons or the church again. I understand that, and accept that. It's hard right now because he's on a general surgery rotation so his hours suck and I never see him. You can also attend their singles conferences, or participate in social activities organized by the Church.
Unfortunately I've been sort of seeing a girl who is basically a real deal Mormon. She has to come to the realization that the church may not be infallible, it can't be forced on her or proven to her. Now if your faith is not so strong to begin with, this perhaps is no big deal. We are trying to conceive now, and I am contemplating if this was the right path for me. I remember attending numerous priesthood meetings by myself and wishing dad were next to me. Takes some getting use to. If it's true, it'll come out of the criticism looking better. But we Always had time for each other.
Additionally we have no family nearby for me to rely on for help or just to combat loneliness. If your spouse believes in infant baptism, will you allow the children to have that. If she says that the mission was the greatest experience and best two years of her life, any chance you have at a normal long-term healthy relationship is dim unless you convert.