They nicely include all the pictures we grew up with on how the book was translated and admit that isn't how it happened. The scenario where she refused to watch a possibly 'anti' documentary and wanted to watch church-sanctioned material sounds like a red flag. Don't get her hopes up too much - in return ask her to do something to research your views. Leave her so you can both find people that youre more suited for.
Also, I know a bunch of Mormons that say they are, but don't act like it. The point is that there are way too many people talking in this thread as if they have some sort of psychic knowledge a stone in a hat, perhaps. You've made good points about not bringing up the CES letter or anything that could be called "anti-mormon. I went to BYU. My daughter thinks it's funny that she's known her SO 4 years - not ready for marriage. It is coming close to the time where I will be preparing for the MCAT and it is going to get a lot more hectic than it has been. Seclusion has served to preserve their desirable traits, but it also makes it difficult to gain rapport.
It's unfair to assume that she feels that way without asking her. I was skeptical whether this would work with Mormon girlsв sheltered girls who would never step inside a dance club or be wooed by pickup artists. Their marriage falls apart because they are both working way too many hours, and they lose their way in life. All of my siblings who married in the church 1 discussed getting married on the first date 2 were engaged within two months, and 3 were married within six months. I agree with what you and so many of the other replies have said: Listen with an open heart and curiosity. I've been the main parent for 30 years.
There will be struggles in marriage and childrearing whether or not he is a member. If you do end up having sexual relations, she will feel guilty, and it will affect your relationship, you can count on that. January 17, February 18, Spending time with this guy is hard to come by. Marriage does weird things to Mormons You're correct, that he should ask her these things would you marry a non Mormon. I think Bob, the answer can be found in your comment.