Please start another thread and continue the conversation. My advice is, as others have said, have no expectations, expect that you will spend the majority of holidays, birthdays, family gatherings, valentines day, anniversaries alone or with other family or friends. Sorry man, but if I knew what I know now I would have cut my losses. No lie he is so very loving and caring understands me feeling,but I must say loving and dating a doctor is really hard. About ten years ago, I realized I needed to quit qualifying my excellent husband who is a better man than many Mormon men I knowI realized I needed to raise my kids to think of him as completely equal to the men they knew at church. I would do it all over again and thank my lucky stars that I found this man, that he loves, and that I love him. This also means giving her something specific to do.
Like, she thought that serving would remedy her of any doubts or testimony issues. However, we rarely ever see each other and don't talk that much in between. Be open to the wisdom the Spirit will share.
Do you have any knowlege of the bible. Ask her right out if she is at all interested in leaving TSCC. My seminary teacher went off on me about dating a non Mormon when I was talking about going to his prom. Thanks - I searched but couldn't find it.
It is very difficult being a Doctors wife. I met this girl a while ago and we really hit it off. But daytime game is the key. I am fortunate to be married to a surgeon who, although he has "the ego," he maintains Christian values in our home. I came across your blog on a google search and I really enjoyed what you wrote. I wouldn't purposefully subject my daughters to that BS. If you can't, then it's best to move on.