Let me tell you, it is NOT any easier. I have a better and fuller relationship with God because my own practice has been supplemented by additional observance. II do wish you luck. The gold is in the footnotes and sources linked from those new essays.
Indeed, it is the loneliness and the lack of time to have intimacy or feel connected with one another that scares me for our future. I got married to for love and companionship, not to essentially be lonely with a lot of nice things and raise my children "as if" I were a single parent. Now look at the flip side в if he loves you, and realizes you fully believe, how will he deal with the importance of the temple to you. There's a reason so many Utahns are on anti depressants and anti anxiety meds. All around me, I am being asked if I am ready to be a doctor's wife, and do I know what is expected of me. Let them see the good in you, and believe that their son or daughter has found a good match. However, you might be lucky to not have the experience I did. You're walking into a den of crazy, tbm bishop's daughter, I hate to say it but you should really be contemplative about what you're stepping into. Mark an envelope to be opened at different times throughout the day.
That is a hard truth. No one appreciates how demanding it is unless they have lived it, many friends over the years said to me "lucky you, you are married to a Doctor. It takes an incredible amount of self discipline to first find and then be able to maintain a balance between life and medicine. So I guess, in this case, all's well that Thanks for posting the update. No one knows your situation the way you do. It's pretty rough waking up to drive home that early and then trying to go back to sleep again for just a little bit before getting up again for work. I don't think it's going overboard, though, to state one very possible and very likely scenario, and that is that this girl may likely be completely indoctrinated and believing. After deep soul searching, I decided to stop working and be a stay at home mom. Am constantly trying to be the understanding girlfriend and try to remain humble towards him at all times but It hurts a lot.
You might need to trade missionary lessons for research on her part, and we can suggest less scary resources. A straight-laced, returned sister missionary, raised in the cult, and in family of similarly entrenched cult members, will not likely remain happy with a non-member. I wish I could reach out to this girl and tell her not to pass up an awesome guy. If we can say them together, great; if not. All I can think about is the fact that his schedule means that I will have to be the one to shoulder all the parenting and household responsibilities. A lot of Mormons think that good people will obviously recognize the truthfulness of the church and quickly join. She's told me the church is one of the most important things to her, but from what I've researched already there's no way I would subject my future children to this culture. But it was frightening Toughen up if you're the doctors girl.