You know what the official line of the church is, and what bishops and stake presidents are likely to say. Hopefully, it will give a little insight into Mormonism's insidiousness. But if you are with someone who is plainly selfish or dishonest or mean, then don't let them use their occupation as an excuse. Honestly, I have given up on lds men as a single 25 year old. But those days may be gone. Found this blog just now after searching "married to a surgeon".
To her, if you don't marry in the temple, she will probably do it after you die anyway. It will only get worse. And occasionally I have queried the wisdom of that choice. My family is pretty awesome in the church. There may be underlying personality similarities, but if the answer to "what shall I do next" is always trumped by a Morman frame of reference for one partner, but not the other, conflict is inevitable. Just talk to her honestly, and if you have to, use the old wonder of logic. Just know that she has been indoctrinated to believe that she wont reach the highest level of heaven if she isn't married in a Mormon temple to another Mormon. Can they keep a job and or clean up after themselves. Stop trying to make up for all the little things you miss with big short-term things.
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You can consider some positive activities and allow you to communicate and learn from each other. If it is already an issue in your relationship, then it'll amplify to an extreme if you get married. Also, I'm sorry that things didn't work out for you with that guy: I'm sure you will meet someone else that's just as wonderful but treats you better if you haven't yet. Love the way you normalize the challenges of being married. She cannot get into the top echelons of heaven without being sealed to a worthy priesthood holder in the temple for time and all eternity. I've had friends with spouses that got Fulbrights or grants to study in other countries. I've heard way too many stories of people breaking up with amazing people and they end up alone or in a less happy relationship. Finally, it is a very tight-knit community and despite efforts to insulate you from conversion-minded missionaries, you will be exposed to a lot of people that think, like this woman does, that atheists are without a moral compass. So I am at my dating prime.
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