You know what the official line of the church is, and what bishops and stake presidents are likely to say. I had many, many friends who moved this quickly during courtship, too. Would you rather give up the prospect of being married in the temple, the assurance of children being raised in the church, and parts of Mormon culture for your boyfriend, or a great man for your beliefs.
But remember that it is also your wife's choice to obey or disobey, and that you have no authority over her as a person, either. In the end, if the guy is the keeper you say he is then go with your gut. I expect to give up my career once he finishes his training and we start a family. Is it wrong to make those types of sacrifices. I suggest to run as it will not get better. That is the million dollar question. He's a big boy and can make up his own mind. BUT it could easily have gone the other way. I am engaged to marry a surgeon next fall.
She didn't tell anyone because her own lack self worth and shame petrified her to do anything about it. I am the same good faithful woman I always was, just on a different path than I ever expected, one full of insights and blessings I never knew could exist. Do you want a home that is focused on the church with all of the blessings there of or a home that is devoid of the blessings of the priesthood, Sundays without your husband at your side at church with your children celebrating in the gospel. With minimal support on my side and going against everything I had grown up learning, I had to trust my relationship with God. She honestly believes that she has the truth, and that if you are exposed to it enough you will recognize that. Before I met my husband I had dated quite a few members and some relationships were quite serious but I never felt right about it. I could never put up with the crap he has to put up with but he could never put up with the loneliness I have to put up with Awww this makes me sooo sad. Do you have any knowlege of the bible.
There were times I asked him if he was seeing someone else and both times he answered no. It's like a catch or something. You will always be second place. But I also know that He loves us so much that He would never take away our ability to choose for ourselves.