I wouldn't just start bringing up the ces letter and the problems in it. They don't get easier, the demands of the hospital and patients will always come first. Well, you won't be getting into anything soon. For example, the irish, polish and the italians basically intermarried. There is still a chance you can work out your differences, but it will require major concessions on both sides.
When you work this hard, you need to play hard. Unless you have some super amazing other dating prospect there isn't a huge reason to cut this relationship off now. I was actually just talking to my husband about that the other day, at first he said that it depressed him when I said that, but really, it helps.
Include your email address to get a message when this question is answered. Now I feel sadness for losing out because of fear, and a cult mindset. I recommend that talk. But I'm still going to show up, even if it means I lose an hour or two of sleep. I think love and caring can be more important. How convenient for him. I tiptoed into my current relationship with a medical student dating two years, med school is almost overand one of the first things I brought up when he was pursuing me and he pursued me HARD was that I would not be the kind of person that would date a doctor. It sounds like she's already considered marrying you and raising children in the church even with you being out of the church. Because people who have problems with interfaith families must needs shortly become a thing of the past. I am a happily married mono-faith guy who has no testimony of dusted base boards.
Ragonk If you don't get it, never mind. I met my wife at the age of She literally showed up at my apartment one night, wholly unexpected. There is a difference between commitment and time together. Sorry you had to go through this, but it's for the best if she's about to leave on a mission. Oh this is a great set of questions. She has to decide for herself what she believes, but you can definitely help expose her to new ideas. If you can't, then it's best to move on.