I'm in the exact same pulling-out-my-hair situation that you are. And, for anyone "dating" a married doctor. If not watch it. Keep your options open.
And he likes the idea of us raising our daughter with the values the Mormon church instills on their youth. Only the racist comments about why it was enacted have been disavowed. Read our Exit Stories from Mormonism. It all depends on the girl.
She will want her kids blessed, baptized, taking temple trips to baptize for the dead, hold the priesthood, a bishop will ask you sons and daughters if they masterbate and punish them if they do, etc. My wife expects me to understand her situation but whiles I am willing to understand, I wish she would make some effort to etch out some quality time for us when she is not stressed out and grumpy and irritable. I keep busy with my own activities, but it becomes really hard to have a date night. And sometimes I think we equate easiness with happiness. It may not seem like a big deal now, but eventually it will probably surface that at best, the church impacts and influences her behavior in almost every area, at worst, it dictates it. He gave me a very clear answer that this was right. If you have dated a doctor or other abnormally busy person or are in the medical profession yourself that would be particularly helpful, but I'll gladly take any words of wisdom. It just seems like I'm never on his mind unless I'm physically in front of him, and then he's sweet as can be.
He went out and purchased a promise ring, but was holding off on giving it to me. The system has broken him down and rebuilt him as someone, I fear, I won't be able to respect or feel connected to. I think the most important thing is to bring up the issues as questions rather than points as why she's wrong. It seems like you havent had enough time to get to know him, and honestly you wont for a while. On the other hand, if you believe God is bigger than we can imagine, and is not constrained by religious dogma, you have as good a chance as any at a happy, thriving relationship. I have dated all walks of TBM women TBM women are closet freaks. December 10, at 9: December 10, at 1: December 10, at 4: December 11, at 4: December 11, at 7: December 12, at 2: May God bless you. She got engaged 3 months later.