These are nice people. Mormonism isn't a free ticket to heaven. If you really like this girl, might want to show her this. We are in a predicament, because we are Jewish and it is difficult to get married between April and November during day light savings time because the sun sets much later which elongates our sabbath and makes it difficult to start a wedding at a reasonable time. Keep things going and see what happens. She asked me to read that site and write down questions. I'm doing the best I can, I try to travel to visit family but again it would be just me and my son.
There is no such thing as a perfect Mormon family- regardless of whether the parents are sealed or not. Notify me of new comments via email. So I feel like we have to wait yet another year just for the daunting part of it to start. You aren't engaged or married or anything, you can't just know that she won't see the light and remain crazy Mormon forever. You will be expected to condone but not attend events in the temple to which you will not be granted access.
So when our children bring home a potential mate that has cultural, racial, religious or other big differences then our child, our concerns immediately flare up. This man basically tells you in a simple way within 6 minutes. I'd rather marry a rich doctor and let him have his affair s on the side just so long as I don't have to work anymore. Would you rather give up the prospect of being married in the temple, the assurance of children being raised in the church, and parts of Mormon culture for your boyfriend, or a great man for your beliefs. All of my siblings who married in the church 1 discussed getting married on the first date 2 were engaged within two months, and 3 were married within six months. Hence the suspicious quotes around "adequately. The fact that she's planning to go on a mission should help. The big one is that under Mormon theology both of you must be believing, fully active members to live together in the afterlife. There is no question this is the true church.
I say, Follow your heart. There are other occasions for humor, but these two are off the table. He sees all families being able to stay together. It's what I agnostic atheist exmo do with my girlfriend reasonable TBM. I know we don't know each other, but it seems like we all share a commonality that connects us all very deeply. And most of those end up with both people losing their faith or a divorce. We keep getting more and more wedding invitations to our apt and with each one I feel like my dreams float farther and farther away. He is in a way to become a Ex mormon. Hopefully she could realize if she was born into one of these cults that also distrust apostates she probably wouldn't see through them either.