They will serve as a constant reminder to her that she needs to conform- and you won't be wearing any. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. The reality is that while God gave us a gospel of love and stands always ready to give us a helping hand, his mercy will not rob his justice. Either you are just fun for now or she wants to change you. You should be fine as long as you stick to the lines you have laid out. If you can put yourself in his shoes, you would understand that, first of all, he is barraged by hungry patients all wanting answers and a piece of him. I ask myself that every day. I thought about those deeply spiritual moments I had had in life and how special they were to me. Wow i am dating a dr and love him so much but i wonder if love is enough. She sounds so indoctrinated that like even if you try to get her to open up, who knows you might get like a BJ out of it doesn't sound like it but who knowsyou have to realize that a lifetime of conditioning will be set in motion in her mind that will make your life hell.
So when our children bring home a potential mate that has cultural, racial, religious or other big differences then our child, our concerns immediately flare up. We started dating the summer before medical shool. I am a 47 yr old Mom of a 4 yr old child with special needs who is completely alone to care for my child a good part of the time. Make sure everyone involved is a couple, or at least is paired with someone. He wanted our kids exposed to Christianity for intellectual reasons and likes the community. Ask her rhetorically if she would dump her religion for her true love. You can consider some positive activities and allow you to communicate and learn from each other. Of course my parents love each other very much and would not choose another spouse, which is why her response caught me off guard.
When he's not at work, he's busy preparing or at conferences or studying, basically non existent. I'll keep being me and we'll see what happens. My parents met when my mom was in 8th grade and married when she was I think my sister married fastest and knew her husband at least 18 months, dating for at least half that. God roots for both our teamsвthe hopeful screw-ups and the straights. It is soooo hard.
But when my oldest daughter hit 12, the lessons started to have one major theme: This is what girls are told should be their primary goal. How do I help sustain and grow our communication under the circumstance. What a joke for an archaeologist. If things get even more serious, try getting her to sign a pre-nup that neither she, nor her family will try to convert you. I don't mean to be rude, but she's not gonna give up her "nonsense". I am so happy to not be working in the medical field any more. Good luck with her, and good life to you. It is the greatest sadness of her life. Give yourself some credit for being attracted to the good side of the Force.