Apr 4, 0. This can be a good way to learn more about your personalities. Will people have feelings about your interfaith marriage. And you seem like a good person. I've realized that we are both pretty social people and he thrives on all the action at the hospital. The common theme here form the complaining spouses is that few of them seem to have their own lives. Dating a resident is hard - it was hard to realize that I can't come first, or even second, in this relationship right now.
Just know that she has been indoctrinated to believe that she wont reach the highest level of heaven if she isn't married in a Mormon temple to another Mormon. Facebook Email Twitter Print. I believe when you die, you die, and you live on in memories and hearts. Consider also the evolving perspective of the potential husband. That's all she thought about for 18 months, plus the months leading up to it, and winding down. Still, I would be interested to hear your perspective and that of your readers. That was my experience. You are too young to deal with this. Well, you know what you're not going to get into before marriage So fuck that relationship. We started to communicate our needs more clearly, rather than tiptoeing, and we started to compromise.
But from what you said, this girl doesn't sound like she is going to be content to have a marriage for time only. If I'm focused on something like reading a textbook, or working on some problem then I might still think of him vaguely but I'm not going to whip out my phone or go and see himI'm busy. Having read the majority of the posts, my only real comment is that "sacrifice must be appreciated by both parties". While that is the case sometimes, it Is much more of an exception than a rule. I, too, am the wife of a doctor dermatology resident. Better than freezing up and avoiding them altogether. If I catch you in the back seat trying to pick her locks, I'm going to send you back to mother in a card board box.
He may never come out and say it, but if you mention marriage outside of the church and he's OK with it, you have a slight chance of being happily married to her and not being mormon. We are here looking for the other people who live this life and understand how difficult and, at times, painful this career is with which to live since the majority of people think like you until they see our families in action. She was masterful at hiding the cuts and bruises with clothing. So good to find this I am married to a Dr with 2 young kids. Some great ideas include going on a hike or a walk, having a picnic outside or going to museum. I know I am a strong person but it really does suck sometimes. Love is a relation where compromise sacrifices and understanding matters a lot. She will likely want you to convert to fix the family. I was lucky with my TBM.