He's a big boy and can make up his own mind. And a YW leader feels soory for my daughter who is growing up in a home without the priesthood. You're walking into a den of crazy, tbm bishop's daughter, I hate to say it but you should really be contemplative about what you're stepping into. She honestly believes that she has the truth, and that if you are exposed to it enough you will recognize that. At parties, they drink soda and play board games. Whether you like it or not, you are both married to medicine. Several of the apostles have grown up in part member homes. Your girlfriend might, or maybe IS, going through this. It just plain sucks.
Probably, not Mount Meadows level, but be prepared to have to apologize on her behalf a lot. Plus there's a lot of things we didn't get taught growing up that are slowly coming out through the Internet. And if you do belong to a ward full of cretins, you must do everyone a favor and just ignore them until they go extinct.
Please wait a few minutes and refresh this page. If you do manage to break her away from the church, her family will be there to continue sowing doubt. I try to visit for a couple hours here and there. I adore the show New Normal and one of my favorite episodes is when Bryan decides to go back to church and the Father is so cool with him. A good doctor must be willing to sacrifice his own needs for the good of his patient and as his wife, you sacrifice as well. Many others have asked the same question in the past so you may want to find those and read the responses there.
I'm surprised you don't seem to know how long his residency will last. This means holding hands while walking around, or even kissing. If your heart longs for children, a family and love- why should you stop yourself holding out for some mystical Mormon man to swoop you off your feet. We all know people who know that the gospel is true but they will not accept it.