Again, I deeply love my dad, but these were things that I had to deal with. I'm firmly in the RUN camp. Even without temple covenants marriage is a noble and worthy institution. We are here looking for the other people who live this life and understand how difficult and, at times, painful this career is with which to live since the majority of people think like you until they see our families in action. That said, there are also a lot of pricks inside the church, who fully deserve membership. She is going to be taught for the rest of her life in the church the importance of missionary work and eternal families, and Priesthood in the home.
I haven't read every post like you probably havebut I've read a lot of them. It sucks to admit, but I broke up with him after 6 months because I didn't think there was any point if we couldn't be together forever. There are times where u rarely hear from him and then he contacts me. I have to day that I totally agree!. Again, I deeply love my dad, but these were things that I had to deal with. I believe strongly that I was meant to marry my spouse.
I've never understood that bit of the LDS culture. It's easy to forget why I chose to be with him in the first place. I have so often heard wow you married a doctor The truth is I will always come second to his job and he will never know how lonely I am for him to put me first. And of course, when it happens, no one the leaver or the faithful spouse could have predicted it. This is because they gave up the structure of what made them desirable in the first place. And the nonmember spouse may just put pressure on the member spouse to spend more time with them. That isn't fair on you, and again will create stress and a stress point in the relationship. You are commenting using your WordPress. But I love him so much. We decided early on that having only one working parent was critical -- I am always the one that flexes to his schedule like it or notand staying home with our child enables me to do that.
She won't marry you. Me and my husband has been married for almost 2 years now, and have been together for almost 12years. Then, do any of the above morsels of advice matter. Let them explore and see the many people who love Heavenly Father and serve him with all their heart. Please start another thread and continue the conversation.