I've heard way too many stories of people breaking up with amazing people and they end up alone or in a less happy relationship. I was with him before I even started college and the past year was especially tough as I am getting more and more busy. For example, the irish, polish and the italians basically intermarried. Know there are a lot of Doctors who cheat though. And that fairly constant theme has some deep implications your girlfriend will have to face.
You will be able to best gauge where her beliefs stand in regards to the church if you listen to how she describes her mission. Even without temple covenants marriage is a noble and worthy institution. My husband, regardless of religious affiliation, is a beloved son of our Heavenly Father who is very much worthy of my love, affection and dedication. I would come back from one of our weekends together and they would ask how it was and I would talk about how amazing it was and what all we did.
I think it's very helpful that I wasn't nearly as busy for most of our relationship thus farwe got engaged before I got absurdly busy and so it's not like we weren't extremely close. The ideal, in my opinion, is that she discovers what we all know about the lies the church tells her. Aww God bless all u patient strong wives.
And yes, some people are unbelievably stupid about it. I currently just started dating someone who is not only in the military, but a doctor. It is crucial to recognize that Mormonism has elements of belief, practice, and custom that work to make interfaith marriages especially difficult and inconvenient for both spouses. You should want to keep things new and interesting, as you would in any relationship, while still allowing your date to maintain the standards of her faith. I've decided not to mention the CES letter or anything that could be considered "anti-mormon. In the interfaith marriages that work where one is LDS and the other is not religious, it only works out when the LDS partner is not fully a believer anymore. It's why TBMs are so bugged by people that leave the church. Dozens of missionaries have told me that the gender ratios in other countries are far, far worse. Much better to marry in the faith if possible.