I would not fear as much as she does, but that is her reality. Plx express what yu think as you ladies are more experienced in this stuff. We just moved in together and I am very afraid of his ocd ways and heavy opinions. And I learned how freeing that is. We tried discussing his list a few times, but it only ended in arguments.
Two very simple things that require so much effort and understanding. I married a non-member over 20 years ago. I have seen love prevail over beliefs. She will never retire. And you seem like a good person.
You could even pass it off as you investigating the church and you stumnled accross these essays on lds. Not every LDS person does, unfortunately. Reading all your comments makes me feel sometimes uplifted, other times scared as hell.
That was hard on my relationship and I had to give up on my dream of being a computer programmer. And on my part, I felt I needed to go out and live harder, party more, be more social, etc. Even if the church believes a bunch of crazy nonsense, and she believes it too, I still really like her and would like to see whether we can have some good intellectual conversations about this stuff.