I wish you the best. Thank you so much. I hope it all works out for you. God brought the two of us together, and we are truly in love. Willl he build resentment at the struggle to get him to change whether real or imagined. I really don't know how will I cope up with every matter without him by my side in this new road ahead of me. She is considered "an old maid" by Mormon standards, so she may be willing to marry you--hoping you will convert someday --but she will constantly be reminded that your marriage is inferior to the "Eternal Families" of sealed Mormons, and she will fear dying and never seeing her loved ones again.
And believe me, I can relate to many of the things you talk about in your blog. How convenient for him. Do not expect anything long term. There is no such thing as a perfect Mormon family- regardless of whether the parents are sealed or not.
I think that if these two really care about each other that she should be told to take a moment and ask herself how she would feel if they break up over this and years later she finally researches her religion. I went to BYU. A Mormon wife will also want to bring the kids along, and that should be discussed and decided before marriage and before kids. There will, in fact, still be churches besides our own.
Would they have stayed in the church if dad was a member. You can watch them all in about a half an hour and you'll know almost everything you need to know. The Church does not recognize homosexual marriage, and does not condone sexual activity outside of marriage. When you make the best choice for you, blessings will follow. My sisters married to the temple served a mission etcв.