It's gonna end regardless not trying to be a dick, but that is what is going to happen eventuallyso be smart and cut your losses before it gets harder. Post was not sent - check your email addresses. I am struggling to find an answer to this question for several reasons. NeverMo in CA Date: NeverMo in CA Wrote: I've read many of the stories here and I know the religion is toxic. I hate to say it, but I don't see this ending well. It's simply sometimes hard to accept that while he is your number one priority, you probably never will be. I also remember my father a stake president telling me the night before I got married that every single couple he had counseled through marriage struggles were not reading their scriptures or praying together every night.
Don't get her hopes up too much - in return ask her to do something to research your views. For instance, you probably want your children to be baptized into the Mormon faith when they are eight в is your fiancee okay with that. Then she can have a chance to actually be the individual she is, and they can have an adult conversation about their future and whether or not they have one. Even without temple covenants marriage is a noble and worthy institution. On top of this we are going to have our first child on April 12th and I feel very alone.
Is your spouse willing to give you up on Sundays, and half your weeknights. Even Mormon girls who marry non-Mormons want great dads for their kids, and they are oriented to having kids, sometimes many kids. We are indeed in two different places. This is not about either of you individually. It is always a nice idea to plan for your date in advance. She is a returned missionary, and won't Marry you if you want to stay atheist. The sons inevitably went inactive later in life.
Based on what you have written about your GF, my opinion is that you should cut your losses and move on. Be gentle with them and yourself. Best wishes on your next expedition. The woman I have feelings for is conflicted on her religion in regards to me. Interfaith marriage is but one variety of the learning experience. I dated non mormon men. I just pray that we can make it through the next 3 years. And on the other hand the thought of having to go through these residency years ahead haunts me. Have lots of sex. Some Mormon girls succumb to worldly laziness.