She won't look at anything "anti-mormon" but if it's on LDS. She seems to be ok with that, and wants to continue our relationship, and also talks about wanting marriage and children, and raising those children to be mormon like her even if I'm not religious. Takes some getting use to. I am a nurse and have been for 10 years. I was lucky with my TBM. Why shouldn't both people be responsible for making it work.
In particular, I relate to the fact that I'm feeling more like a booty call these days and it's making me start to resent him. If she is open to questioning her faith, perhaps she can chase you down. While you will be of the right age to date, the Church discourages you from trying to date someone while on your mission trip. I have just found this blog recently that makes me know that I am not alone. She's too heavily invested in Mormonism for that.
My Buddhist husband likes Mormons and even going to church. Sorry you had to go through this, but it's for the best if she's about to leave on a mission. You will get to mingle with a lot of new people, and who knows, maybe you will also find the guy or girl of your dreams there. Perhaps with a note written on the back.
Because she already lives the covenants in most of the meaningful ways. You've stated that she had numerous guys break up with her after she took sex off the table. So it is going to be over anyway. I think love and caring can be more important. It is also considered disrespectful to others, as they may be uncomfortable because of your open displays. I forgot to add, that if you marry and alow your children to be raised as Mormon, chances are you wont be able to be at their wedding because it will be in the temple. So, we decide to take a "break" because there was so much tension and resentment in the relationship. I have been with him through medical school and residency for internal medicine, which was tough, but manageable.