I also studied his advice for approaching and dating women. But you can't make her think about the numerous facts that disprove Mormonism. I am a non-Mormon who moved to Utah for college. I understand your internal conflict completely and my heart goes out to you. So it is going to be over anyway. When I was a teen, my first boyfriend was a convert and people would comment on that instead of how nice he was to me. We have a happy marriage. Jesus might have seemed like a cute, imaginary playmate at first, but on some level I would have been expecting to help her get over it. The only thing I can say is good luck to all. I know, I know, this is the last thing you want to hear.
Not being an RM, they weren't really interested in me. She is now happy with her uber-Mormon boyfriend and I am happily dating other people as well. They have money for nannies, trips, vacation homes, their children go to the finest colleges, etc. Be fruitful and multiply. I am hopeful and do feel some healing. But the lies sting some people. Maybe it was because I was so young when I made the choice, maybe it was because I was the oldest child in an extremely active family with parents that just expected me to be a shining example to the younger kids.
I have been married to my doctor husband for 36 years. I grew away from mine as my husband then-boyfriend slowly grew closer to his Mormon faith. BYU was once the perfect place to find a great young woman and get married.
The right age for getting married varies depends for men and women. And he needs to trust his instincts if he thinks she's being dishonest. My husband not only supports me going to church he encourages it because he knows that it is a part of me and makes me happy. On top of his work schedule, there are other demands on his time like his family and friends. Unfortunately, this has led to a culture of Mormon girls who are absolutely obsessed with Disney and even as adults dream of being Disney princesses.