If you can't do that, realizing that your partner may never come around to your side of things, you are not ready to marry this person. To the individual who asked, "Am I dating a douchebag. From her summary, he just did not understand her dilemma at all.
Make sure you are According to the teachings of the Church, Mormon youth should not date before the age of This is more of a custom than a hard rule, but it is a good standard to follow, as you will probably not be mature enough to effectively handle that kind of personal relationship before then. Sorry dude, she is in way to deep. You are not a worthy RM priesthood holder. If this is the case, she definitely can be reprogrammed and awakened. There are a great many beliefs I can't condone but most of them are along the lines of gender stereotyping, and how you apply that to your own life obviously varies by individual. I remember attending numerous priesthood meetings by myself and wishing dad were next to me. He has spent years building his practice and is a busy, highly successful pediatric surgeon who is compassionate and respected by everybody, but I think by nature, it is hard for him to be empathetic or to relate to more personal issues. The church is very important to her.
And sometimes I think we equate easiness with happiness. It's easy to be blind to deal-breaking faults when you are young and in love. About ten years ago, I realized I needed to quit qualifying my excellent husband who is a better man than many Mormon men I knowI realized I needed to raise my kids to think of him as completely equal to the men they knew at church. Don't think it's just women married to male physicians who suffer. All these link from LDS. He is in his mid-thirties and is starting later than most residents. Either you are just fun for now or she wants to change you. I was recently married to my husband in the Twin Falls, Idaho temple for time and all eternity. I don't think you should abandon the relationship just because she is lds. I really fell that its time for me to move on.
It's in the Mormon DNA. I think it was Spencer Kimball who counselled that before marriage you should keep your eyes wide open and then after marriage keep your eyes half shut. She started crying when I explained this to her.