Mind control is not child's play, and the Mormon church has real people's blood on their hands for the despicable damage they've caused. She is now happy with her uber-Mormon boyfriend and I am happily dating other people as well. If you can't, then it's best to move on. Yeah, I think we need to have that talk I've been putting off. A friend of ours who is going to grad school at Duke started complaining to me about how he had to work while Dr. I've had friends with spouses that got Fulbrights or grants to study in other countries. Now that my boyfriend and I are beginning to talk about a future together, though, I realize that I need to consider this question of marrying outside of the church very carefully. But I'm still thinking about him. Be open and talk about your ideals.
And as an anonymous comment put it, date night is sometimes out of the question because he is using his "free" time as catch up on sleep time. When the weather is nice outside, I crave for a walk with my husband, but have to tell myself he is busy saving lives. Fall in love, learn, make some mistakes, laugh, serve other people, reproduce, and let the whole story start again. Would I like to have him by my side. I remember one time I did just that with a group of friends and someone saying, "Oh you have it so rough. As others mentioned, when they are home they are often exhausted, catching up on sleep, preparing a presentation or catching up on notes. Either way, if you have kids and you don't convert, she will divorce you and take your kids away from you and you will be shunned from her community.
The struggle is real. However, be careful to not ask something that may offend your date. The two of you can get married in the temple and live together forever for eternity. There is much that needs to change and many hearts to educate but if we doubt some of the fundamentals then why not all of them. Finally, the decision of whom you marry is really between you and God.
If you both comfortable having different faiths, your relationship can still be rewarding and fulfilling. I don't pity you at all. All of which will remind her that she wants you to convert so you can be together for eternity. To others making this consideration, I would certainly suggest that you converse with your Father in Heaven about this important choice. If your doctor husband says "impossible", ignore him. If you marry for a paycheck and a lifestyle, you are nothing but a gold digger and therefore won't MIND if your husband has a mistress on the side. During "Netflix and chill" the other night, I noticed there was a documentary about mormons. To her, if you don't marry in the temple, she will probably do it after you die anyway.