Likewise, posts found to direct odious influxes here may be removed. But you are setting yourself up to leave the Church more easily, and even if you agree the children will be raised Mormon, your kids will likely not continue to participate in the Church as adults. Marriage is hard, period. Just an idea, I have no idea what would actually work for her. I think you should start by having some very honest conversations. Dozens of missionaries have told me that the gender ratios in other countries are far, far worse.
I would never change my decision to marry him. When you said that the doctor spouse sacrifices for their patients and their family sacrifices for the doctor's career, it really described my situation. Too bad she couldn't handle the guilt and remorse. How does one go about trying to develop a relationship with someone whose schedule is so unpredictable and whose free time is so sparse.
They are always dressed in decent clothing, and the same is expected of their date. How many chances will a girl have to find such a wonderful husband candidate. This happened to me, and it took me forever to get out of the cult. I know how long his residency lasts. Save her and yourself more pain by ending it before you fall in love. After you read the CES letter Im pretty sure you will be grossed out by mormonism. To me, life is all about growthвso ask yourselfвwill I grow more staying single and focusing my life on the church, or will I grow more branching out, looking at life from different perspectives, and allowing myself to see options I have not yet considered. No doubt that all rightetous persons will accept Christ but not everyone that dies will be righteous.
The views expressed by individual users are the responsibility of those users and do not necessarily represent the position of the Church. And your needs essentially have to be silenced a lot of the times. Life is a journey and going through it with a true partner, and a mutual respect for curiosity, is so far greatly rewarding. I think it's very helpful that I wasn't nearly as busy for most of our relationship thus farwe got engaged before I got absurdly busy and so it's not like we weren't extremely close. Willl he build resentment at the struggle to get him to change whether real or imagined. Thanks again for the continued comments and replies to my edit. Such beliefs make the girls confident about being women. I moved out of sate to be with him. She is probably thinking she can convert you if she is with you long enough and is a good enough example. As my husband learns about Mormonism I get to see it through his fresh eyes.