This can be a good way to learn more about your personalities. But you are setting yourself up to leave the Church more easily, and even if you agree the children will be raised Mormon, your kids will likely not continue to participate in the Church as adults. Only you will know. I am so in love with him and he says he is too minus the stupid cheating. I think that Doctors have to be selfish to a degree. Best wishes on your next expedition. I get it; I just don't buy into it. Trust your instincts and your spiritual promptings. If your heart longs for children, a family and love- why should you stop yourself holding out for some mystical Mormon man to swoop you off your feet. I am engaged to a Doctor and I must say that all this posts are kinda scary.
I am not sorry I married outside the LDS faith. Hi all, It's really interesting to read all of your experiences and how you've worked through the difficult times. It just seems like I'm never on his mind unless I'm physically in front of him, and then he's sweet as can be. Attacking other posters is not allowed, but this forum recognizes the difference between a belief and the person holding to that belief. Oh this is a great set of questions. Most want nothing to do with the church. From her summary, he just did not understand her dilemma at all. I do nearly all of the parenting fortunately we only have one child -- we both agree that this lifestyle is too demanding for more and find that my husband's crazy hours and the energy drain of the job make me yearn to connect with other wives that relate. Am constantly trying to be the understanding girlfriend and try to remain humble towards him at all times but It hurts a lot. Good luck and best wishes as you head back out into the dating pool.
After our first kiss she lets me know she won't have sex with me because she's mormon and we'd need to be married first. My boyfriend and I moved in together when he started his fellowship last year. Willl he build resentment at the struggle to get him to change whether real or imagined. Usually, when Mormon girls marry non-Mormon men, these women forsake their religion and revert to ordinary American woman. Does he come home on time after work. I know this post is kind of all over the place but I had to get it out I Here's to hoping that this coming weekend he isn't on call, doesn't have to fill in, doesn't have a million charts to finish, and doesn't have any crazy medical emergencies!!. Still, I would be interested to hear your perspective and that of your readers. Again, reading your blog definitely opened up my eyes to many things I was totally oblivious to.
I think in most situations its either you join or she leaves- either you, or the church. I can completely relate to all the other doctor' s wives feelings and life experiences. Some mormon girls are closeted freaks as someone here has already said. Hi I think you are all lucky to marry a Doctor. Fifty years later, not one of her 3 children, her dozen grandchildren or her numerous great grandchildren is an active member of the LDS church. I appreciate my own space too, but it felt shitty to have this great time with him and not get so much as a text until we are making plans for next time. You have to come second right now.