This is because if your relationship gets serious and you guys get married, then she may have to forgo many of the customs of her religion. Top Posts Do Mormons believe people can become gods. That being sais, just be honest. I also think he is not used to anyone telling him "no" or going against his opinion. Communication is crucial, and even if we don't see each other for several days at a time, it's important to be on the same page.
The thing is, even though no one else trusted my decision, I prayed about it daily for our entire relationship. He is in a way to become a Ex mormon. Her brain has been wired from birth by said cult. Mormon girls are taught that they have a divine nature.
Whatever your leaders have said, consider their counsel, give it the weight it deserves, then counsel with your Heavenly Father about your own situation. I dated non mormon men. The woman provides advice and counsel but doesn't preside. Then be clear you will never convert. She's such a martyr and a great person for doing this. Take extra care to communicate your needs once a week- don't do it every day. Her experience may or may not be typical, but it is something to consider.
Still, I would be interested to hear your perspective and that of your readers. Now that I am trying to MCAT study for at least 2 hours a day the pressure to find time together is really high. You would be able to force her to confront the facts without feeling threatened. The day could come where she has to decide between her relationship with you and her church. I can't quite put my finger on it. March 19, And congratulations, "lovableluciferian" for walking away from the precipice of an untenable relationship. I even had someone tell me I should know better than to marry a nomo.