Anyone who's a decent human being should be able to know right from wrong and act accordingly. But it turns out I need to understand him more than I should be understood Take care of him more than I should be taken cared of. Having said this, there are several aspects of this particular religion that you need to be aware of as these will greatly affect how she will approach you and the relationship as a whole. If your date has been an active member of the Church who is following these moral guidelines, then she will not be willing to involve herself in a sexual relationship with you. Honestly, I have given up on lds men as a single 25 year old. You need to disabuse them of this notion. More than often, these men cheat and will trade up as soon as they start making some money. How do you feel about that. He has never said a disparaging word about his mother. The church creates massive guilt and shame in children and adults usually through sex related shaming.
Within a cultural group marriage is hard. This happened to me, and it took me forever to get out of the cult. Masculine attributes attract healthy, beautiful women, no matter where they come from. I think in most situations its either you join or she leaves- either you, or the church. Yes, those of us in the hospital work longer and harder days than most people with 9 to 5s, but we still have off days. At best they just try to include you in the community, and at worst you are constantly told that you'll be welcome "when you're ready. And as many posters stated, it is something that needs to be seriously discussed with your potential partner. I also write erotic shorts which I hope help women heal from bad relationship and envision what they really want and create it.
I have seen love prevail over beliefs. She likely believes that her time as a missionary was preparation for marriage. Marriage offers a chance to develop generosity of spirit and a willingness to be improved by the one we love, no matter what faith tradition he or she may claim. She will be surprised that a non-Mormon holds the same values she does and respect you.
Good communication, love, support and understanding are the things you should consider. And yes, some people are unbelievably stupid about it. Why not ask him where he wants the relationship to go. If we can say them together, great; if not. I love my non-member husband of nearly 20 years. We raised 2 wonderful children who are now happy and successful adults.